What You Don’t See About Yourself

What can you do when you think you’re kidding yourself and feel that you look like **** in your videos? …It’s been a year and I know you miss my #pinkfoamrollers. ๐Ÿ˜‰ #WhenWomenWin #yougotthis #ladyboss #fyp #lifestyle #foryoupage #keepgoing

Hello, Lady Boss! How many times have we talked about our face, right? (or rather: I’ve talked about my face and how it may apply to your face. You may have all the confidence in the world and I think that’s incredible – and I’m working on it). And why do I keep doing it [making videos]? Because I wanna help you: I want to get you to the point where we can all love your videos and watch them, and make you more watchable (but you know all that…).

It’s really funny because someone – I have a best friend – whom I trust, who watches my stuff — and every time *I* see my stuff, part of me says, ‘Who am I kidding? I look like ****, blah, blah, blah,’ but I keep going because I love you and I wanna help you. (How can I love you if I don’t know you? Just… [ok]). … Last night, she told me that I’m so funny, that all she sees is my smile and went on and on about how real I am. I was like, “Oh.”

How does this apply to you? If you look at yourself and think, ‘Oh my God [agonized face], blah, blah, blah,’ just ignore that. Just ignore the ‘blah, blah, blahs’, because someone else may see something completely different and they probably do. It underscores what I believe deep down: people aren’t lookin’ for perfection or beauty queen (although we love beauty queens, right [most of’em]?). They are looking for *real* and people to whom they can relate. So, if you have doubts, please re-watch this video and say, “Ok, I’m gonna ignore what I think I’m seeing,” and keep the love of your people – whether that’s men or women (I coach woman, mostly) – keep the love of your people and the desire to help them in your heart and just keep on goin’. Ok, l’bye!